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david charles terry's avatar

Oh, Dorie........Thank you for this posting. I was just quite consciously missing my Aunt Martha (actually, my father's first cousin, who died at age 87, just this past year).

I was raised in what most folks these days would regard as an overly formal household, and one of my earliest memories is of Aunt Martha's (she couldn't have been more than 25 at the time) whisking me out of my great aunt's/her mother's house....to go to her APARTMENT (!!!!!!!). It was 1968. Aunt Martha had NOT married, and she had a job at the MEDICAL SCHOOL, and she painted watercolors, and she owned a volkswagen of her very own, and she was regarded as distressingly "wild". We became fast friends (quite aside from our rather overbearing and utterly homogenous family) by the time I was ten. By the time I was 40 and she was sixty, I would introduce her, only half=jokingly, as "the other black sheep in the family"..........."We both forgot to get married...."

That said?.......I distinctly recall her taking me to her apartment (no single women had apartments back then, except for Mary Tyler Moore on television), where she had laid out all the cookie-molds and decorative candy-things ("non-pareils"?), powdered sugars, etcetera......for making and decorating sugar cookies. We started out from scratch (nothing special, I suppose....just "Joy of Cooking" recipe; women in my family don't cook and certainly don't bake).

And, no.....she didn't let me "just be creative". She made me learn how to do it

nicely". I was beyond thrilled. It may have been the first time anyone took the time to SHOW me how to make something and do it right....and, yes, I was (for perhaps the first time) very proud of the outcome/product. I felt very grown-up and, more importantly, competent.

Well, enough of this........best wishes to you and your family, and thank you for an obviously evocative posting.

sincerely, david terry

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susan goldberg's avatar

Another phenomenal compendium of so many great cookbooks that I don’t know where to start. I have enjoyed cooking from SNACKING CAKES, so might start with Yossey’s latest book. I bought the ABC’s of PARIS to give to my tenants once the baby arrives. I’ll be on my couch and in my kitchen this winter trying some others on the list, too. Thank you! (And thanks for sharing the photos of Gemma and VV: they remind me of our Emma at that age.❤️)

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